A COMPLETE HUMAN: THE OVERVIEW OF THE 80/20 PERSON
We realize that we must be a complete person to be in a relationship and to be in the world. We cannot wait for others to "complete us", to make up for what we are missing, as trying to control others or depend on others to do that is a violation of the 80/20 laws of effort: manipulation or trying to control others is something that is difficult and unproductive. When the other person leaves the picture, one is left being incomplete...
We "manage"
Spirit
Relationship Career/avocation
Body
Manager: use the mind to manage them
Criteria: Unconditional self love - If don't have it, get it, learn it.
Tools: Use systems to free us up - to do more, live more
Pre-set formats - For key decisions
Skills - See "The 80/20 Skills".
habits
Leverage
Principles: Never reinvent the wheel
Use expert knowledge and guidance, coaches, consultants, teachers
Rules: Never do it yourself, when others are better at it or have already invented,
designed, or researched it, but learn enough to know if it is good. Spend
time finding and managing, instead of doing. Follow the step by step
instructions.
Follow the path of success, the experience of the successful, models.
Only use experts and the best.
Always maintain a Resourceful State
Critical decisions are made with super-care: Carpenter's Rule (Measure
twice, cut once!)
Not allow energy draining, toxic elements into my life: people, thoughts
